Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you'll start having positive results.
- Willie Nelson
Let's take a break from the wedding stuff for a bit, I am annoying myself now.
I wanted to take moment to talk about a statement a young lady told me. Her words where "you're always just so positive" it's hard to explain it in writing, but she said it in a way like it was a bad thing. At the time she had said this, we were in a situation that was not perfect, but as I always say getting mad about it won't fix it. You need to stay calm and positive so you can have a clear mind to fix the problem.
It got me thinking why? Why does a beautiful young girl think it's a bad thing that I am positive, that she thought if a situation was bad that you have to be upset, stressed and mad. I really think young people should be taught positive vibes, they should be taught to be grateful for what they have and taught life skills to cope with any negativity.
I love that I am positive because it helps me get stuff done. Yes I have my days where life is hard and I wish I could run away and live on a tropical island, but I can't do that yet, so I have to do what I need to so I can do what I want. Now positive vibes attract positive things and trust me if your always looking at what is bad and tough in your life that is where you will stay but if you focus on the good and what you have you will get more from life. I am a person who enjoys the little things in life, like the fact I am lucky enough to be able to have clean sheets to sleep in, that I have a job I actually love and those times where you find $2 in a pair of jeans you haven't worn in a while.
I look at those who complain and who are negative, the people who are in the same spot as they were 1 year a go. You are the controller of your life and you can change your thinking and thus change the situation you are in. A positive attitude is not a bad thing and for all those young people in your life be an example to them. Being a teen and having your hormones raging through you is hard enough, so show them that being positive is good, don't output negative energy or get frustrated towards some one because there having a bad day, boost them up, put some of your energy on them and in return you will feel amazing.
Until next time, Be fearless